Humanity has a randomness that brings each close to divinity.
It is by that principle possible for men to exceed the limits of their programming.
"The wound is where the light enters you." -Rumi
When you stop worshipping the past and killing yourself for today,
the future begins to bloom.
"His grace extends so far that even when we turn away from Him, Christ waits patiently and lovingly for us to turn back to him.
Thank you, God, that Your grace has set me free and given me new hope for tomorrow."
Thereby, forgive yourself, within reason, and forgive others--while being tougher on yourself than the standard by which you judge others. But guard your salvation from the wiles of a "lost and falling world", lest you find your own soul becomes one with that "lost and falling world"....
We belong to God while conversely being enveloped inside a world filled with sin and destruction. It is like riding a horse, and using your strong hand to hold the bridle--our strong hand is our relationship with God. Our weak hand is the influence of the world around us--we practice one, while trying to strengthen and improve the other.
Christ's words:
First love God.
Second love others.
My own paraphrase:
First we are God's children.
Second we are world citizens.